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"The Four Noble Truths" was the first teaching given by the Buddha after his enlightenment experience under the Bodhi Tree in what is now Bodh Gaya, in northern India. But first, let’s explore how he ended up
sitting under a tree trying to get enlightened in the first place. 2500 years ago, this young man named
Siddhartha Gautama was raised in the lap of luxury—his father was the leader of
a small kingdom in Northern India. The
story is told that he was given whatever he wanted—the best clothes, food, women
and entertainment. He lived the first 29
years of his life as a life of excess.
Then, one day he traveled outside the palace walls, and discovered that
people were suffering—from accidents, sickness, old age and death. He realized that he had led a very sheltered
life and decided to leave behind the luxury and go forth to find an end to
suffering.
He
made friends with a group of men who were living in the forest and practicing a
spiritual lifestyle called asceticism.
Ascetics eat very little, have no possessions and sleep on the
ground. They believe that taking away
all the comforts of life will lead to enlightenment. So, Siddhartha went from excess to asceticism
in search of the “cure” for suffering.
After six years, he found that he was no closer to enlightenment, but
was close to dying. Isn’t this often
the way we view the world? Hoping for a
black and white answer to our own suffering?
He was bathing in the river and almost drowned when he passed out from
lack of food. A woman named Sujata saw
this and gave him milk and rice, which he accepted gratefully. So, if not for that woman, there may never have been a Buddha or Buddhism! (Go Sujata!) At that moment, it’s said that he realized
that there must be a middle way, between
the extremes, that would end suffering.
I'll interject a great question from Joseph who added that Siddhartha's experience as an ascetic and learning yoga in those six years prepared him for his awakening, by training his body and mind to become more focused and highly tolerant of uncomfortable experiences. I'm sure this training was very supportive of his awakening. Is it truly possible for us, here in the 21st Century, with our flabby focus and avoidance of discomfort, to become enlightened? Although we might be ready for the spiritual Olympics, I have found that we can create major change in our experience by starting with a program of meditation, focused awareness and positive imagery (more on that next week). These simple tools can help tone and tighten our focus and ability to tolerate discomfort, enough to transform our perspective quite a lot. As Joseph added, we can change over time, like water wears down rocks.
Back to the story of The Buddha--When
his friends found him eating, they were disgusted that he had given up
asceticism and left him. He walked a few
miles and decided to sit down under a peepal tree, determined to sit until he
discovered the “cure” for suffering. The
folklore varies about how long he sat there, but he experienced what we all
here experience when we simply sit in silence.
Our minds create a never-ending display of stories and drama and
restlessness and boredom and feelings and sensations, trying desperately to
distract us. Siddhartha decided to sit
with it all. When he quit responding to
every whim and whisper of his mind and body, he realized he could create a gap between stimulus and response,
and that precious gap enabled him to be awakened to the possibilities that life
has to offer.
The
whole trajectory of his life changed when he discovered that GAP. It is said that he walked around for weeks
in bliss, no longer held hostage by his thoughts, emotions and sensations. The Buddha had discovered that we can
pro-actively manage our experience of life by creating a gap between stimulus
and response, by going beyond conditioned reactions and old ways of
experiencing ourselves and the world around us.
He
went and found his five ascetic friends so he could teach them what he had
discovered. They could see that
something tremendous had happened to him, so they sat down and listened. Siddhartha, who then became known as the
Buddha, meaning “The Awakened One”, began to teach, and his first talk was
called, “The Four Noble Truths”.
•
There
is suffering in life.
•
There
is suffering because we seek to satisfy ourselves in inherently unsatisfying
ways.
•
The
possibility of liberation from suffering exists for everyone.
•
The
way to free ourselves is to practice the Eightfold Path that results in
enlightened living.
The
first Truth is that life includes suffering.
The word in Pali, the original language used to write down the
teachings, was dukkha. Dukkha can be translates in three ways: suffering, insecurity or just feeling
unsatisfied. The Buddha realized that most
of us live life with some sense that things, or we, are just not quite right. Sometimes, this feeling lingers in the
background, or sometimes it slaps us in the face. We might a passing sense of pleasure, by
achieving a goal, or feeling successful for a bit, then we often go right back
to feeling that there is something more to be done, that something is
missing. Our culture encourages this
sense of “never enough”, encourages doing over being. In
fact, “doing” can be confused as the thing the only thing that gives us value
as a person.
The
Buddha also recognized that there is unavoidable pain in life--we get old, we
get sick, we die. Those that we love get
old, get sick, and die. This is the reality of living, and we often suffer
because of it. The First Noble Truth is
to face this reality honestly. Buddhism is sometimes misunderstood as having a
very negative perspective on life. I
offer the exact opposite perspective.
Buddhist practices encourage us to face the facts! Be honest!
And out of that honesty, comes a starting place for real joy, real
happiness.
Another
misconception about Buddhism is that we are trying to trying to STOP our
thoughts or emotions. Many of us may
have probably tried denying our true thoughts and emotions in order to avoid
being hurt. Sometimes, this method seems
to work for awhile. But in the long run,
we lose the most precious gift of life—being
fully and completely engaged in living.
We
are encouraged to get to know ourselves in a deeply honest and compassionate
way, to become aware of what we are thinking, feeling and sensing. The Buddhist concept of “non-attachment” is
to realize that thoughts, emotions and sensations are NOT who we truly are. But
FIRST, we learn to SEE them more clearly in order to transform our response to
them. Compassionate awareness and honesty are key ingredients to the Buddhist
path.
THE
SECOND NOBLE TRUTH IS that life includes suffering because we seek to satisfy
ourselves in ways that are inherently unsatisfying. We keep trying to rearrange our external
world and respond with clinging, aversion or ignorance to our thoughts and
emotions, hoping to create a sense of happiness. It might work for a short while, but never
for the long term. THESE METHODS ARE
INHERENTLY UNSATISFYING and also a whole lot of work. It takes so much energy to constantly be trying
to rearrange things and people and places to make them make us happy.
Here’s
the good news: The Third Noble Truth is
that the possibility of liberation from difficulties exists for everyone. We each have within us the incredible
potential to be happy, to have a deep sense well-being REGARDLESS OF OUR
EXTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES OR WHATEVER MIGHT BE OUR RANDOM THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS. This realization is what catapulted the
Buddha into a radically different life.
This is what caused people to flock around him to listen to his every
word, to follow him wherever he went. He
taught to anyone who would listen: kings
and paupers, men and women, anyone who might have a glimpse that his teachings
might true. He was egalitarian at a time
when solely supporting your tribe was seen as the safest bet for safety. He threw out the idea that some people were
better than others. He realized that we all
have this great potential within us.
The
Fourth Noble Truth became the Eightfold Path, eight ways to see and experience
yourself and the world differently to create this inner happiness and peace. For today, we’ll stop here, and talk in more
depth about the Eightfold Path next week.
For now, we can delight in this realization that we can change the way
we see ourselves and the world by first getting fully honest with ourselves.
The question we can ask ourselves this week is: What is it in my life right now that is causing me a sense of suffering, insecurity or dissatisfaction? What makes this moment feel like something is quite right or not enough?
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