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Today, we are finishing up our series on Awakening the Buddha Within with the last Eightfold Path component to be covered: Wise Livelihood. How do we reconcile making a living with making a life? The teaching at its simplest says we earn a living without harming others. Ah, that it was that easy to be happy, make money, and do no harm!
Today, we are finishing up our series on Awakening the Buddha Within with the last Eightfold Path component to be covered: Wise Livelihood. How do we reconcile making a living with making a life? The teaching at its simplest says we earn a living without harming others. Ah, that it was that easy to be happy, make money, and do no harm!
I know some of you have jobs that you adore. You wake up in the morning and can’t wait to
get to work. Others I know are less
enthusiastic—you might think, meh, I’m okay with what I do. There are also some that might have that
Bataan death march feeling every day—where your brain toys with the idea of
steering the car toward the highway going the opposite direction of work and
running away from life. Or maybe… you
have a job that includes all three experiences in any given day or week or any
given year. No job is perfect. Even if you are retired or working in the
home, there is an opportunity to see
whatever action we are taking in life to support ourselves as an opportunity to
support our values, to live our values. Wise livelihood is about living our values,
living an ethical life, and exploring the possibility of joy in a myriad of
places.
So, first we must be clear on what we value. What is most important to you? Take this moment
to make a mental list. Now, think about how your work is supporting those
values.
In Thich Nhat
Hanh’s book, The Heart of the Buddha’s
Teachings, he says "To practice Right Livelihood, you have to find a
way to earn your living without trampling upon the values of love and
compassion. The way you support yourself can be an expression of your innate
Buddha nature, OR it can be a source of suffering for you and others. "
... We should be awake to the consequences, far and near, of the way we earn our living." The way you earn your living is not merely
about the product or service created. It
includes your attitude and actions in HOW you do your work, how you interact
with yourself and others, day by day, moment by moment.
Work is an opportunity to put our spiritual beliefs into action. One of the most practical applications I have found for enjoying my work are:
Miguel Ruiz The
Four Agreements
1.
Be Impeccable With Your Word.
2.
Don't Take Anything Personally.
3.
Don't Make Assumptions.
4.
Always Do Your Best.
See work as an opportunity to practice the four
Agreements. Sometimes, we spend too much
time asking ourselves the big questions of what do I want to be when I grow up,
that we miss the daily opportunities to show generosity and compassion. And an critical component of these agreement
is to let go of expectations! We can do the right thing and not expect
anyone to notice or thank us for it. That
is part of the Buddhist practice. Do your
best, do what is needed in each moment, be generous, help others, be
grateful.
I would add a five agreement: Look for the good! Many times, people sabotage their work by
pro-actively looking for the negative in themselves and in others. Catch yourself and your co-workers doing
something good and praise it.
Officially, the Buddha is quoted as saying, "A householder
should not engage in five types of business: Business in weapons, business in
human beings, business in meat, business in intoxicants, and business in
poison." So, we can each evaluate
whether we feel ethical about what we do to make a living.
A common misperception
is that Buddha was against making money.
Not at all—he counsel Kings and businessman of his day. He just encouraged it to be done in ethical
and skillful ways. But he knew that does not buy happiness in and of
itself. So we get to decide, how much
money to we really need? Matthieu Ricard’s
story about Tahiti.
How we relate to
money? Money comes with plenty of
baggage from our parents and hard times or good times we might have had with
it. Only you can decide how much money
you need to live a skillful life. And
each of us, we have the capability, if we have the willingness, to spend our
money wisely.
There’s sometimes
this fantasy that we will find the perfect job for our skills, our interests
and our desired lifestyle. And, it is
worthwhile to explore what makes your heart sing. But, don’t let the fantasizing cause you to
miss the magic to be found in each moment.
Sometimes, we will miss many of them when we only fantasize about
something in the future that is “better” than what we’ve got in the now. In my own life, I began my corporate career
in love with my job, fighting the good fight, feeling delighted by the
competition. But slowly, my perspective
changed, and I found myself stuck in what we lovingly would call the golden
handcuffs of a good paying job that no longer brought me any joy. With family obligations at the time, I felt selfish
wanting to simply walk away. So, I
decided to uphold the Four Agreements, and worked at infusing loving-kindness
and compassion into every moment of every workday as best I could. It got me through another seven years of
working there and got my daughter through college. We each have these decisions
to make in our lives, some big and some small.
Daily, we each
make a decision to stay where we’re at or try something new. There are a myriad of options to
consider. First, if you
love what you do, don’t take it for granted.
And you might ask yourself how could you serve others by helping them
along as well. Second, if you
don’t love what you do, how could you begin to explore other options without
causing financial disaster?
Third, if you
don’t have a job, how can you choose wisely for the next one. Doreen is an excellent role model for going
through the tough process of 100 interviews to find the job that she truly
loves. And the people you interact with,
the places you hang out, the attitude about getting a job that you have, these
are the critical components to enabling the right job to appear.
Fourth, how do
you make the most of each moment regardless of whatever situation you currently
find yourself in? Regardless of our job,
we always have the opportunity to bring spiritual energy in daily life.
Dogen was a 13th
century Zen master who said:
“Those who see worldly life as an obstacle to
Seeking the spiritual truth see no spiritual truth in
everyday actions;
They have not yet discovered that there are no
Everyday actions outside of the spiritual truth.”
So dream, but also be present in each moment
and appreciate what we have.
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