Monday, August 20, 2012

Buddhism without Beliefs – 3 Enlightenment

(For Podcast, click here.  For ITunes version, click here.)  

Today we continue our book series on Buddhism Without Beliefs by Stephen Batchelor.  This book was written in 1997, and it continues to be somewhat controversial among Buddhist teachers and practitioners, as it attacks many of the Buddhist institutions that are the backbone of much of Buddhism today.  So, we’re going to go back to the Buddha’s original teachings, and what has been proven to work.  Today we are explorers, willing to take a look at what was taught and decide for ourselves what has value.

This morning, specifically, I want to talk about this idea of enlightenment.  Don’t we all want be enlightened?  Isn’t that what Buddhism is all about?  But what is enlightenment?  When the Buddha was asked what or who he was, he replied that he was NOT a god, or a prophet or a messiah, or anything extraordinary, but simply he said he was awake.  Even the name The Buddha means awakened one.  The words enlightenment and awakened are often used interchangeably, but it can still sometimes be confusing.  Is there a difference between enlightenment and being awake?  I ask you to consider in this moment, what exactly is enlightenment is? What does being awake mean?  What might it feel like to be fully awake or enlightened moment-by-moment?  What words would you use to describe that state?

The story is told that Buddha sat under the tree and boom! He was enlightened/ awakened, and spent the rest of his life in this state.  Stephen Batchelor challenges these accounts of the Buddha’s awakening.  First, he had been exploring different spiritual practices for several years, so he had been preparing for a new discovery.  Then, he was able to put it all together based on this experience of the power of his mind to control his experience moment-by-moment.  This seems to be a key to his discovery—we may not have the ability to control what happens to us in life, but we always have control over how we respond to it.  If someone dear to us passes away, we get to choose how we respond to this sadness, to the process of grieving.  The Buddha taught a set of practices that enables us to create a gap between stimulus and response, and that gap gives us the power to choose how we respond to any experience—whether it’s a situation, a thought or an emotion.  Creating a gap between stimulus and response might not sound as sexy as “enlightenment” but I would offer that it just as powerful, and maybe even the same thing.  My Buddhist teacher jokingly says, “You must be present to win!”  You must be fully aware in each moment to understand how best to respond, how best to relieve suffering and maintain a sense of well-being. 

Buddha discovered something new about how to relieve suffering—this practice of being awake, being aware moment-by-moment, which enables us to stop before we respond in habitual, unskillful ways.  I have a great deal of difficulty believing that once you “get it”, that you never “forget it”.  Most likely, he too went through this process of awakening, getting it, then falling back asleep a bit, then remembering again.  He and his followers spent nine months wandering and teaching, then spent the three months of the rainy season on retreat.   In contemporary life, most of us can’t afford the time or money to simply go on retreat for three months each year, but we can look for ways to incorporate these practices of awakening into our everyday lives, and these little things that we do can transform our experience of living.

What happened after the Buddha passed away is that the elders kept moving the enlightenment “carrot” to further away.  When he was alive, it was written that many people heard him speak and “got it” right then, became awakened immediately.  They understood the cause of their suffering.  Then, after he passed away, this hierarchy of elders and the systems for monks and nuns were constructed, and this enlightenment thing, the possibility of awakening, became more illusive.  It began to be said that it required more and more practice--you might have to practice for many lifetimes to get to the point of enlightenment. I think even using the term enlightenment instead of awakening makes its seem more mysterious, more complicated, more not-quite-within-our-reach. 

When we look back at the Buddha’s original teachings, he said that being awake can happen to anyone; it wasn’t something set aside for only the few.  You can become awake right now in this moment.  It might not last forever, but you might have an experience of awakening right now that enables you to realize the possibility of living life in a completely different state.

Lastly, let’s talk about nirvana (no, not the 90’s Seattle grunge band.)  The Buddha described nirvāna as the perfect peace of the state of mind that is free from craving, aversion and other afflicting states.  Nirvana was set apart from temporary moments of peace that we each might have.   Nirvana is actually a Sanskrit word that is translated as extinguishment of the flame.  The flame represents the suffering that we all experience as a result of our unskillful responses to life’s challenges.  In this definition of this word, once again, we are given a task that is defined as almost unreachable.  It implies that silly little peace that we might get moment-to-moment is somehow diminished in importance, it somehow doesn’t quite count, unless we can sustain it for ALL TIME.  What Stephen Batchelor proposes, and what I have experienced, is that a little slice of nirvana can go a long way to changing the trajectory of our lives.  Even if you get it for just a moment, that you have a sense of deep peace and well-being just for now then lose it, once you’ve had it, you know what you’re aiming for.  You know what the practice is about.  You’ll know better how to recreate it again and again over time.  Batchelor is encouraging to us that is enough.  Those moment of peace and well-being will help relieve our suffering and the suffering of others.

Stephen Batchelor encourages us that we can make our enlightenment bite-size—the moment you don’t habitually bark back at your partner when they push your buttons, the moment you find a state of peace amidst a traffic jam, the moment you silently and sincerely wish for your boss, “may you be happy”, when you previously would have felt frustration and irritation.  These are moments of nirvana and awakening, and these practices-of mindfulness, meditation and visualization of positive qualities--enable more and more of those moments to occur.  Isn’t that amazing? 

 “Yes, there is Nirvana; it is in leading your sheep to a green pasture, and in putting your child to bed, and in writing the last line of your poem.”  -Kahlil Gibran (a Lebanese-American Poet)  

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