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This
morning we continue a series of talks about the Basics of Buddhism. Last week, we talked about the three
catalysts of experience: external
circumstances, internal thoughts and feelings that arise and fall away, and the most power potential:
our ability to choose how we WANT to experience life.
When
Siddhartha Gautama sat under the Bodhi tree, he realized this powerful third
option, and it opened his eyes to the way things really worked. It is said that he walked around for weeks in
bliss, assuming that he would be unable to describe this new way of seeing
things to others. Finally, he realized
that he should at least try! The
Buddha had discovered that we can pro-actively manage our response to the
world, create our thoughts and our feelings, AND by doing so, we relieve
suffering, both our own and others, and can actually be happy. Great news!
So
he wandered 259 kilometers to the Northwest of Bodh Gaya, to a place called
Sarnath, and found his five ascetic
friends so he could teach them what he had discovered. It’s said that they saw him coming, and
dis’ed him as “There is Siddartha,
that luxury-loving fellow who gave up fasting and fell back into a life of ease
and comfort. Don’t talk to him or acknowledge him, that jerk!” Okay, maybe that wasn’t exactly what they
said, but it could have been something similar.
When he came closer, they felt like something had profoundly changed
him. It was then that he began to teach The
Four Noble Truths.
The
first teaching by the Buddha after his enlightenment was the Four Noble Truths
(translation is from Awakening the Buddha Within by Lama Surya Das)
- Life is difficult.
- Life is difficult because we seek to satisfy ourselves in ways that are inherently unsatisfying.
- The possibility of liberation from difficulties exists for everyone.
- The way to free ourselves is to practice the Eightfold Path that results in enlightened living.
The
first Truth is that life is difficult.
The word in Pali, the original language used to write down the teachings,
was dukkha. In his book, Insight Meditation: The Practice of Freedom, Joseph
Goldstein translates dukkha in three ways:
suffering, insecurity or just feeling unsatisfied. The Buddha realized that most of us live life
with some sense that things, or we, are just not quite right. Sometimes, this feeling lingers in the
background, or sometimes it slaps us in the face. We might get close to passing sense of
pleasure, by achieving a goal, or feeling successful for a bit, then we often
go right back to feeling that there is something more to be done, that
something is missing. Our culture
encourages this sense of “not enough”, encourages doing over being. In
fact, doing can be confused as the thing that gives us value as a person.
The
Buddha recognized that there is also unavoidable pain in life--we get old, we
get sick, we die. Those that we love get
old, get sick, and die. This is the reality of living, and we often suffer
because of it. The First Noble Truth is
to face this reality honestly. Buddhism is sometimes misunderstood as having a
very negative perspective on life. I
offer the exact opposite perspective.
Buddhist practices encourage us to face the facts! Be honest!
And out of that honesty, comes a starting place for real joy, real happiness,
regardless of these cold hard facts.
Another
misconception about Buddhism is that we are trying to detach from our thoughts
and feelings, to pretend that they aren’t there, or even trying to STOP our
thoughts or emotions. Many of us may
have probably tried to not get involved in order to avoid being hurt. Sometimes, this method seems to work for
awhile. But in the long run, we lose the
most precious gift of life—being fully
and completely engaged in living. If
we don’t engage, then we might then suffer from a feeling of isolation and
loneliness.
The
word “non-attachment” is often used in the translation of Buddhist texts, and
it is sometimes misunderstood that the teachings are encouraging us to deny our
thoughts, our emotions, deny anything that causes us suffering. THIS IS AN INACCURATE TRANSLATION. The truth is the exact opposite. We are encouraged to get to know ourselves in
a deeply honest and compassionate way, to get to know our thoughts, our
emotions, our sensations, our reactions.
We are encouraged to make friends with the thoughts and emotions and
situations that might scare us.
“Non-attachment” is to realize that these thoughts and emotions are NOT
who we truly are. FIRST, we have to SEE them clearly in order to transform our
response to them. Compassionate
awareness and honesty are key ingredients to the Buddhist path. Buddhist Nun, Adrienne Howley, in her book, Naked Buddha, goes so far as to say
that, “Buddhism can be of no real value to an individual unless one learns to be
perfectly honest with oneself.”
I encourage
you, in this moment, to finish this sentence, “If I were perfectly honest with
myself, …” What would you say? This level of questioning
doesn’t stop at the first answer that might arise. Sometimes when we’re in pain, we feel angry,
but when we probe deeper, there might be fear underneath the anger. This process of compassionate honesty is a
method to retrace the steps of our difficulties, to get to the root cause of suffering.
THE
SECOND NOBLE TRUTH IS Life is difficult because we seek to satisfy ourselves in
ways that are inherently unsatisfying.
We keep trying to rearrange our external world and respond with
clinging, aversion or ignorance to our thoughts and emotions, hoping to create
a sense of happiness. This DOES NOT WORK
LONG TERM. We might get a passing sense
of happiness or pleasure, or avoid some pain, or ignore some unpleasantness,
but in the long run, we are chasing after an ephemeral experience. We are waiting for happiness to be created by
either our external world, our passing thoughts or our ever-changing
emotions. THIS METHODS ARE INHERENTLY
UNSATISFYING and also a whole lot of work.
It takes so much energy to constantly be trying to rearrange things and
people and places to make them make us happy.
Here’s
the good news: The Third Noble Truth is
that the possibility of liberation from difficulties exists for everyone. We each have within us the incredible
potential to be happy, to have a deep sense well-being REGARDLESS OF OUR EXTERNAL
CIRCUMSTANCES OR PASSING THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS!
Oh happy day! This realization is
what catapulted the Buddha into a radically different life. This is what caused people to flock around
him to listen to his every word, to follow him wherever he went. He taught to anyone who would listen: kings and paupers, men and women, anyone who
might have a glimpse that his teachings might true. He was egalitarian at a time when solely
supporting your tribe was seen as the safest bet for safety. He threw out the idea that some people were
better than others. He realized that we
all have this great potential within us.
The
Fourth Noble Truth became the Eightfold Path, eight ways to see and experience
yourself and the world differently to create this inner happiness and
Peace. For today, we’ll stop here, and
talk in more depth about the Eightfold Path next week. For now, we can delight in this realization
that we can change the way we see ourselves and the world by first getting
fully honest with ourselves.
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